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		<title>The Best Things in my Life from Having Bipolar</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jul 2007 13:11:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>james</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What can possibly be good about bipolar disorder? Well, nothing when you're in the depths of despair or spinning manically. But there can be great benefits from having an illness, including a mental illness, and there are ones that I've found in my life from having bipolar disorder.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s an odd title I know. What can possibly be good about bipolar disorder? Well, absolutely nothing when you&#8217;re in the depths of depression or spinning around manically. But there can be great benefits from having an illness, including a mental illness, and there are some that I&#8217;ve found in my life from having bipolar.</p>
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<li>
I&#8217;ve learned how to say no. If you are good at something, like work, then people ask you to do more. It builds up over time. I&#8217;ve learnt to say no. I can&#8217;t. I have bipolar. Sorry.
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<li>
I don&#8217;t worry about what I&#8217;m going to wear, and I don&#8217;t have to keep track of my clothes cycle. I don&#8217;t care what I&#8217;m going to eat for dinner, whether I need a bigger television or a new car. If I didn&#8217;t have bipolar these things might continue to consume me as they once did.
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<li>
My marriage is far stronger today than it would have been if I didn&#8217;t have bipolar. Apparently 90% of marriages where one partner has bipolar end in divorce. That is truly tragic and saddening. My wife had lots of reasons to leave me when I was ill for prolonged periods, but she stayed even though she didn&#8217;t understand what was wrong with me. Her perseverance has been a blessing to our marriage.
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I have great relationships with my kids and time with them is invaluable. Unfortunately most Dads don&#8217;t spend more than a few minutes a day giving their kids undivided attention. Learning that I had bipolar was a good wake-up call. I now spend more time on things that are important to me.
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<li>
I&#8217;ve slowed down a lot. I stopped wearing a watch some years ago and haven&#8217;t missed it. Losing track of time rarely causes problems; if I&#8217;m 10 or 15 minutes late for the doctor, it doesn&#8217;t matter. He works to the same system anyway.
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<li>
I take my physical health more seriously than I used to. I&#8217;m frustrated by my lack of action on exercise, but I&#8217;m thinking about physical health every day, even when its hard to follow through with action.
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<li>
I&#8217;ve always been very open about having a mental illness, and I&#8217;ve actually never felt the stigma that is so widespread. I&#8217;m fortunate in that respect. When I converted to Christianity about 20 years ago I lost most of my good friends who had an issue with it. Since I&#8217;ve been telling people that I have bipolar I&#8217;ve gained at least the same number. Go figure.
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<li>I&#8217;ve learned to be thankful for what I have and not yearn for what I don&#8217;t.</li>
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<li>
The best thing must be the ability to empathize with others who are facing the same problems.
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I was once very guarded with what I said, often checking myself from saying anything that could offend or impact a person&#8217;s view of me. I&#8217;ve really lightened up and feel liberated. I&#8217;m rarely inappropriate (except when ill), but even if I am, I sense that nobody really cares.
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<li>
In the Bible, in Romans 5:3-4 it says:<br />
&#8220;We rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope.&#8221;
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Being engaged with the world is good. I think more deeply about things like inequality, poverty, the environment and mental illness. (The downside of course is feeling let down by those in positions of power who continually fail us.)
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Life is absurd. My life is absurd. I&#8217;ve learned to laugh at both.
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<p>
We have some friends who for many years had a very, very messy house. 3 young girls &#8211; cooking, dress-ups, paint, craft, clothes, toys &#8211; you know the rest. They would unashamedly invite friends over for meals, joking that they offered an important service to other parents. It helped their friends feel better about their own messy houses. </p>
<p>In a similar vein I found this in <a rel="nofollow" title="Dustpanalley blog" href="http://dustpanalley.blogspot.com">another blog</a>:<br />
&#8220;When you&#8217;re mentally ill you are constantly doing social work just by existing. I realize that often, when you&#8217;re crazy you actually need social services for yourself, but just by talking about yourself to people who aren&#8217;t feeling that great about themselves, you are able to instantly make them feel glad they aren&#8217;t you. That&#8217;s a great service to offer.&#8221;</p>
<p>A final word is that I definitely don&#8217;t have it all together, and I still have episodes now and then &#8211; although less severe &#8211; in both directions. I didn&#8217;t write this post to give a different impression, but just to put some ideas out there for looking at illness from a different angle. </p>
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		<title>How I Raise My Vibes</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Jul 2007 15:24:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>james</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve been tagged for a meme about energy by Isabella Mori. Isabella is a very knowledgeable and experienced counsellor, with a blog called moritherapy. The meme was started by Cardin at OptimistLab. If you don&#8217;t already know, an internet meme is a piece of digital content that spreads quickly, widely and organically from person to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been tagged for a meme about energy by Isabella Mori. Isabella is a very knowledgeable and experienced counsellor, with a blog called <a rel="nofollow" title="Isabella Mori - counsellor and psychotherapist" href="http://www.moritherapy.org/">moritherapy</a>. The meme was started by Cardin at <a rel="nofollow" title="Raising Vibes meme" href="http://www.optimistlab.com/index.php/2007/05/25/how-i-raise-my-vibes-the-high-vibes-game-kick-off">OptimistLab</a>.</p>
<p>If you don&#8217;t already know, an internet meme is a piece of digital content that spreads quickly, widely and organically from person to person.</p>
<p>So, here are the five best ways that I know of to &#8220;raise my vibes&#8221;.</p>
<p><strong>5. Music</strong></p>
<p>My taste in music is very eclectic, so I have something for just about every occasion or frame of mind. There are a dozen or so songs that, played with volume, really raise my vibes.</p>
<p><strong>4. Exercise</strong></p>
<p>I&#8217;m always amazed at how much better I feel after exercise than I did before starting. It must be the endorphins. And the virtuous feelings. There is nothing that I find harder than <a rel="nofollow" title="Exercise Depression and Procrastination" href="http://www.findingoptimism.com/?p=65">overcoming the mental barrier</a> that stops me from exercising. It&#8217;s a barrier that shouldn&#8217;t be there given that exercise is so beneficial, in the near-term and long-term. My lazy instinct must be stronger.</p>
<p><strong>3. Go to a Bookshop</strong></p>
<p>Ah, yes. I could spend a whole day in a bookshop, given a large range of books and a cafe that serves good coffee. I just love looking at books, dreaming, not even buying necessarily. I also spend an awful lot of time on Amazon and Audible during the day. As I part own a family business I have to monitor my own internet activity, which hasn&#8217;t caused any problems yet.</p>
<p><strong>2. Drink water</strong></p>
<p><a rel="nofollow" title="Water and Mental Health" href="http://www.findingoptimism.com/?p=23">Water, water and more water</a>. I almost never drink enough, but when I do I feel fantastic. That makes a lot of sense since I&#8217;m normally dehydrated, and water makes up 75% of the body and 85% of the brain. Eating watermelon makes me feel great as well!</p>
<p><strong>1. Have a long, important conversation with someone</strong></p>
<p>No matter how good or bad my mood is to start with I feel greatly energized if I can help someone else through conversation. I&#8217;ve experienced this more and more, as people who I know have asked me questions about mental health, and have found my answers to be helpful.</p>
<p><strong>That&#8217;s my 5.</strong> If I could just include them all in my day, everyday, I would be jumping out of my skin with energy.</p>
<p>Here are the 3 that just missed out on the top 5.</p>
<p><strong>Sleep</strong><br />
Believe it or not lack of sleep energizes me (for the first week or so).</p>
<p><strong>Reading books<br />
</strong>Not just looking.<br />
<strong><br />
Spending time with family<br />
</strong>Taking my kids out just about anywhere. Going for coffee with my wife.</p>
<p>I now have <strong>6 blogs</strong> (not 5) that I&#8217;m going to <strong>tag</strong>.</p>
<p>I love the recent blog on Beyond Blue titled &#8220;<a rel="nofollow" title="Beyond Blue depression post" href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/beyondblue/2007/06/my-depression-toolbox.html">My Depression Toolbox</a>&#8220;. I&#8217;m convinced that the best way to maintain good mental health is to monitor depression triggers and have strategies at the ready to mitigate them when they appear. This post gives a great example of a &#8220;stay well plan&#8221; that does exactly that.</p>
<p>On the Dr Shock blog there is an interesting article about <a rel="nofollow" title="Activity Scheduling for Depression" href="http://ectweb.blogspot.com/2007/07/here-is-method-that-is-helping.html">Activity Scheduling</a>. This is another positive approach that aims to re-energize the depressed person by building pleasurable activities into their daily routine. (Thanks for the referral at the bottom of the post!)</p>
<p>I&#8217;m fascinated by the <a rel="nofollow" title="Blog about treatments for depression" href="http://happinesspursuing.blogspot.com/">The Pursuit of Happiness</a>, a personal, moving blog by a depressed man trying to work out what exactly is wrong with him and what kind of treatment he should seek. I recommend starting with the <a rel="nofollow" title="Searching for depression treatments" href="http://happinesspursuing.blogspot.com/2007/06/pursuit-of-happiness.html">first post</a>.</p>
<p>At <a rel="nofollow" title="Space and Time blog" href="http://embracingmyinsanity.blogspot.com/">Space and Time</a> Melissa writes short posts about anything and everything, and sometimes even nothing. (Sorry Melissa). Her writing is personal, humorous and self-deprecating.</p>
<p>Rachel keeps me laughing, entertained and engaged with life at Frizzy Logic. I especially like her <a rel="nofollow" title="Frizzy Logic blog" href="http://www.frizzylogic.org/fl/2007/07/06/snakeoil/">post from a week ago</a> on an amazing infinite energy generating machine, that could be housed in a gallery, but never fulfilled its potential.</p>
<p>Finally, Anna at Widows Quest has written a brief post &#8220;<a rel="nofollow" title="Stop Feeling Tired and Energize" href="http://www.widowsquest.com/how-to-stop-feeling-tired/">How to Stop Feeling Tired</a>&#8220;. She summarizes a great point from another article on how doing things for other people will energize you in a number of ways. I couldn&#8217;t agree more. This may be the reason that I have helping others in conversation as my Number 1 energizer.</p>
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		<title>Depression, Omega 3 and Clever Fries</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jul 2007 15:50:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>james</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[McCain Foods has just launched a new range of Omega 3 fries, in response to a major deficiency in the Australian diet. These new "functional" foods, with nutrients added, are hitting supermarket shelves everywhere. Manufacturers like McCain are clearly concerned about our diets.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>McCain Foods has just added some new faces to its staple of French fries products in Australia. They are the SuperCrunchy Omega 3 Steak Chips, SuperCrunchy Omega 3 Classic Chips and SuperCrunchy Omega 3 Chunky Chips.</p>
<p><em>This is in response to a major deficiency in the Australian diet.</em></p>
<p>Innovation Director at McCain Foods, David Boyle, said &#8220;I think the food industry as a whole has got to get more serious about putting nutrients in our foods&#8221;. And it is getting serious. These &#8220;functional&#8221; foods, with nutrients added, are hitting supermarket shelves everywhere. Manufacturers like McCain are clearly concerned about our diets.</p>
<p>A quick refresher on Omega-3 fatty acids. Omega-3s are polyunsaturated fatty acids found mainly in fish, some plants, nuts and seeds. Those found in marine life consist mainly of EPA and DHA, the two principal Omega-3 fatty acids. They are highly biologically active fatty acids.  Those found in plants (flaxseed, walnuts and canola oil) are usually in the form of alpha-linolenic acid. The body can convert this into EPA and DHA, but only inefficiently at the level of 10%-15%.</p>
<p><strong>Why are DHA and EPA important? </strong></p>
<p>How many reasons do you want?</p>
<p>Dietary DHA can reduce the level of blood triglycerides, which may reduce the risk of heart disease. Low levels of DHA causes a reduction of serotonin, which may in turn be associated with depression and other diseases. An increasing body of evidence suggests that supplementing the diet with DHA can provide therapeutic benefits for people with depression.</p>
<p>EPA is needed by the body to produce prostaglandins, which control blood clotting and other arterial functions. EPA also provides a natural lowering of blood cholesterol and triglycerides.</p>
<p>There is a comprehensive list of the effectiveness of Omega 3s on a range of health conditions at the <a rel="nofollow" title="Omega 3 and Range of Diseases" href="http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/druginfo/natural/patient-fishoil.html">US National Institute of Health&#8217;s MedlinePlus</a>.</p>
<p>Depression and bipolar disorder still rate a &#8220;C&#8221; &#8211; &#8220;unclear scientific evidence for this use&#8221;. There is strong evidence linking depression with a reduced intake of Omega-3 fatty acids, but less evidence for the benefits of increasing Omega-3 to relieve depression more generally. In fact earlier in the year the British Medical Journal&#8217;s Drug and Therapeutics Bulletin (DTB) <em>dropped a bomb-shell, stating that there is no convincing basis for using Omega-3 as a means of alleviating the condition</em>.</p>
<p>UK firm Dairy Crest pulled a new ad campaign for its Omega-3 &#8216;clever milk&#8217; shortly thereafter.</p>
<p>So I happened upon a packet of McCain&#8217;s SuperCrunchy Omega 3 Classic Chips in my local supermarket today. The vital statistics on my nutritional panel were:</p>
<p><strong>Per 100g</strong><br />
Omega 3 &#8211; 348 mg<br />
DHA &#8211; 26 mg<br />
EPA &#8211; 7 mg</p>
<p>So the combined amount of DHA and EPA is less than 10% of total Omega 3. And guess what? Cooked in canola oil.</p>
<p>I would love to know how much Omega 3 there was <em>before</em> the new marketing campaign. Not much less than there is now, is my guess.</p>
<p>McCain Foods innovation director, David Boyle, said the launch was a big step forward in McCain&#8217;s quest to provide consumers with a healthier French fry without sacrificing taste or quality. Mmmm. That&#8217;s right. No fish oil here.</p>
<p>Here are the Omega 3 levels in some other everyday foods (per 100g), taken from the <a rel="nofollow" title="Omega 3 levels for Foods" href="http://www.foodstandards.gov.au/monitoringandsurveillance/nuttab2006/onlineversionintroduction/onlineversion.cfm?&amp;action=nutrientFoods&amp;nutrientID=TOTLONGCHAINW3FD">Australian government&#8217;s Food Standards database</a>. Sorry to those who haven&#8217;t caught up to metric yet!</p>
<p>Cake, Carrot, Iced, Commercial 56 mg<br />
Cream, Thickened, 35% Fat 90 mg<br />
Lamb, Leg Roast, Roasted, Lean 114 mg<br />
Pancake, Home Prepared 120 mg<br />
Sauce, Hollandaise 122 mg<br />
Tip Top Omega 3 Bread 163mg<br />
Beef, Mince, Hamburger, Dry Fried 277 mg<br />
Beef, Chuck Steak, Casseroled, Lean 357 mg</p>
<p>&#8230;then the fish&#8230;</p>
<p>Bream, Baked In Foil, Oil Or Fat Not Added In Cooking 1089 mg<br />
Fresh Gemfish, Flesh, Steamed 1753 mg<br />
Salmon, Atlantic, Grilled Without Fat Or Oil 1822 mg<br />
Salmon, Red, Canned In Water, No Added Salt, Drained 2225 mg<br />
Sardine, Canned In Oil 2502 mg</p>
<p>Sardines on toast is looking good.</p>
<p>In the U.S. <a rel="nofollow" title="Omega 3 Allowances" href="http://fnic.nal.usda.gov/nal_display/index.php?info_center=4&amp;tax_level=3&amp;tax_subject=256&amp;topic_id=1342&amp;level3_id=5140">macronutrients</a>, as fats, are not assigned recommended daily allowances. Instead they have Acceptable Intake, which is 1.6 grams/day for men and 1.1 grams/day for women.</p>
<p>There aren&#8217;t many academics or clinicians around who will advise a &#8220;therapeutic&#8221; dosage of Omega 3 for depression. If such a thing exists it will be vastly different between people, probably a lot higher than the normal Acceptable Intake, and only beneficial for some. A <a rel="nofollow" title="Depression, bipolar disorder, ADHD studies" href="http://www.biovita.fi/suomi/terveyssivut/e-epa_table.html">Finnish review of Omega 3 studies</a> shows how variable the results have been so far, and this list is far from complete.</p>
<p>Further reading:<br />
<a rel="nofollow" title="Good Omega 3 Overview" href="http://www.umm.edu/altmed/articles/omega-3-000316.htm"> Omega 3 Overview</a><br />
<a rel="nofollow" title="Omega-3 and Depression" href="http://www.mcmanweb.com/article-15.htm">Omega-3 for Depression and Bipolar Disorder</a> (a bit out of date but still good)</p>
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		<title>Top 42 Exercise Hacks &#8211; Zen Habits</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Jul 2007 11:33:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>james</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[42 Handy tips for getting started and remaining committed to exercise.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>This guest post was written by Leo Babauta from <a rel="nofollow" title="Zen Habits" href="http://zenhabits.net/">zen habits</a>. Check out his other great posts on exercise  <a rel="nofollow" title="Zen Habits exercise post" href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/05/7-ways-to-build-the-exercise-habit/">by clicking here</a>.</em></p>
<p>Just to note, I&#8217;m not a certified trainer. I&#8217;m just sharing stuff that&#8217;s worked for me. Also, some of this stuff is contradictory. That&#8217;s because you&#8217;re not supposed to implement all of them &#8211; just pick the ones you think will work for you, and give them a try. Good luck!</p>
<p><strong>Top 42 Exercise Hacks</strong></p>
<ol>
<li><strong>Start slow</strong>.The biggest mistake that people make when starting an exercise plan is starting too fast or too hard. Trust me, I&#8217;ve done it many times. I&#8217;ve learned to take it easy, start as small as possible, and worry about endurance or intensity later. The key in the beginning is to make it enjoyable and accomplishable. That&#8217;s probably not a word, but it should be. And it is now. Zen Habits are ones that are accomplishable.</li>
<li><strong>Increase but gradually</strong>.After getting used to a certain level of exercise, you&#8217;ll want to increase it. Don&#8217;t just run two miles or walk 20 minutes three times a week for a year. Your body adjusts to the stress you&#8217;re giving it, so you need to increase the level once you&#8217;ve adjusted. But do it gradually, and only every two weeks or so.</li>
<li><strong>Crank it up</strong>.Once you&#8217;ve gotten used to exercise, you&#8217;ll want to do some higher intensity ones for better fitness and fat-burning. For example, instead of running slowly and steadily, for a long time, try doing shorter bursts of fast running, with periods of rest in between. You can do this for any exercise. Higher intensity increases the calorie burn, and improves performance. But you can&#8217;t do it as long, and you shouldn&#8217;t do it every workout. Mix it in with endurance workouts.</li>
<li><strong>Schedule workouts</strong>. Make appointments with yourself to workout, at a specific time and place, just as you would with any other appointment. And make it the most important appointment on your calendar &#8211; more important than a doctor&#8217;s visit or even the manicurist.</li>
<li><strong>Make it a habit</strong>. If you can do exercise at the same time, every single day for a month, you are more likely to make it a habit. Consistency makes habits more ingrained. Once it&#8217;s a habit (and start easy in the beginning!), then you can step up the intensity a bit.</li>
<li><strong>Forget about weight loss</strong>. Yeah, many of us would like to lose some weight. But if you&#8217;re motivated solely by weight loss, exercise will be a tough proposition. The reason is that you might not lose weight right away. Oh, it&#8217;ll come, if you can keep it up over time, but in the beginning you might be disappointed (especially if you haven&#8217;t changed your eating habits). Just get into the habit of exercise, and worry about the weight later. First things first.</li>
<li><strong>Forget the gym</strong>. The gym can be horribly convenient, but it can also be intimidating for beginners, and confusing if you don&#8217;t know how to use the equipment. Sure, you can get a trainer to teach you, but if the cost or the confusion stops you from exercising &#8211; well, skip the gym and do it at home or at the park or somewhere less intimidating. You can do pushups and crunches and dumb bell exercises at home very easily, workout to a DVD, or go walking or jogging in your neighborhood. Cheap and simple is my motto.</li>
<li><strong>Reward yourself</strong>. Self-explanatory, but rewards are best if they are frequent in the beginning. Be self-indulgent! Even sweets are good rewards &#8211; remember, get into the habit of exercise, and you can worry about weight loss later.</li>
<li><strong>Do a 30-day Challenge</strong>. Challenge yourself, and see if you can rise to the occasion. Do it with a group or your significant other. Put in rewards. Tell everyone you&#8217;re doing it. Motivate the hell out of yourself.</li>
<li><strong>Join an online group</strong>. One of the best motivators is having to report successes and failures to a group of people. Check out some online groups (there are groups for every type of exercise), introduce yourself, see which ones you&#8217;re comfortable with. Once you&#8217;ve gotten established (after a couple of days) see if you can post your results every day &#8211; you won&#8217;t go wrong once you start doing that.</li>
<li><strong>Post your results on your blog</strong>. There&#8217;s nothing more motivating than positive public pressure (short of a gun to your head). Step it up by making a promise to your blog readers that you will commit to this goal for a month, and post your results every day. Even if your mom is your only blog reader, it&#8217;ll really help.</li>
<li><strong>Do a journal</strong>. If you don&#8217;t post your results on your blog, write it in a journal, either online or on paper. However you set it up, make it a habit to post to your journal or log right away, as soon as you&#8217;re done with your log. It will motivate you to see your progress over time, and it&#8217;s a good way to see what you&#8217;re doing right and what you&#8217;re doing wrong.</li>
<li><strong>Make it fun!</strong> Exercise doesn&#8217;t have to be a chore. I love doing a morning run, with the sun coming up, the world so quiet, my mind left to its own devices. Enjoy yourself and you will actually look forward to your workouts.</li>
<li><strong>Fuel up</strong>. If your workout is more than 30 minutes, you really should have some energy in you. You shouldn&#8217;t work out on an empty stomach &#8211; but you also shouldn&#8217;t eat right before you work out. Eat a banana or some peanut butter toast or a ClifBar an hour or two before your workout, and you&#8217;re good to go.</li>
<li><strong>Hydrate</strong>. Also an hour or two before you workout. Water is best. Use a sports drink during your workout (and after) only if you&#8217;re going to go an hour or more. If you&#8217;re going to do a tough workout, stay hydrated throughout the day. In fact, go ahead and do this whether you work out or not.</li>
<li><strong>Get a workout buddy</strong>. Find someone at your level, and commit to working out a certain number of times a week together, at a certain time. This will make you more likely to keep that workout appointment, and workouts can be a lot of fun if you spend them chatting with your buddy. Just be sure to actually work out, and not just chat, Chatty McChatterson!</li>
<li><strong>Get good clothes</strong>. Actually, you don&#8217;t need anything fancy to get started. But once you do start working out, it&#8217;s nice to get yourself some nice workout clothes, with breathable and comfortable fabrics, ones that look good on you. It&#8217;s motivating, and pleasurable. Make it so.</li>
<li><strong>Put a cover model on your fridge</strong>. Not literally, of course, as that may be illegal, but find a good magazine photo of a model with the body you want, and post it up somewhere visible. You may never look like that model (heck, that model probably never really looks like that), but it&#8217;s motivating. Don&#8217;t pick a model that&#8217;s too good looking, or you may question your sexuality.</li>
<li><strong>Change it up</strong>. Sure, walking or running every day can be a lot of fun. But getting some swimming or biking or strength workouts or aerobics or kickboxing into the mix can be a lot of fun, and can also help you get into better shape. They work out different muscles, and step up the metabolism. Variety is the spice of life and all that.</li>
<li><strong>Do it early in the morning</strong>. My favorite time to work out is between 5:30 and 6:00 a.m. Plus, I know that if I work out at this time, nothing will get in the way of the workout later in the day. It&#8217;s a beautiful time of day, not too hot, and there&#8217;s nothing like showering and going to work knowing that I&#8217;ve put in a great exercise (and it allows me to feel superior and look down my nose at those lazy bums I work with).</li>
<li><strong>Squeeze it in during lunch</strong>. OK, you&#8217;re not a morning person. You&#8217;re busy. You don&#8217;t have time to work out. Well, suck it up, buster, and sacrifice your lunch hour to the gods of fitness. Bring your workout clothes, do a quickie nooner, and be back at work ready to tackle the afternoon.</li>
<li><strong>First thing after work</strong>. None of those options work for you? Not a problem, my friend. Make it a daily appointment to work out as soon as you get off work. This will also motivate you to finish your work on time so you can get out on time for your workout. It&#8217;s great to stop somewhere to do your workout before you even get home, because once you get home you&#8217;ll probably want to relax on the couch, fall asleep at the kitchen table, or rush to the computer to read the latest Zen Habits post.</li>
<li><strong>A little and often</strong>. You don&#8217;t need to work out long, and you certainly don&#8217;t need to be a weekend warrior. Just 20-30 minutes every day. Who doesn&#8217;t have 20 minutes on their schedule. You? Well, scratch Walker Texas Ranger rerun off the schedule and make room for this instead.</li>
<li><strong>Just lace up</strong>. Yeah, you&#8217;re dreading the upcoming workout. But don&#8217;t even think about it. Just lace up and head out the door. That&#8217;s all. After that, let nature take its course. Just relax and do what comes naturally. Which is exercise.</li>
<li><strong>Join a race</strong>. Signing up for a 5K or a triathlon are my favorite motivators. It really gets me to do my workouts because if I don&#8217;t, I will look like a dork by collapsing 5 minutes after the starting gun goes off. But don&#8217;t worry about how you look &#8211; just go and have fun at these races &#8211; everyone else is worrying about themselves too much to notice you.</li>
<li><strong>Get good gear</strong>. As a reward, get yourself some nice little gadgets &#8211; a sports mp3 player, a Polar heart rate monitor, a pedometer, a scale, a bike computer, whatever. Something cool that will make you look forward to your workouts.</li>
<li><strong>Forget about the gear</strong>. Having said that, you don&#8217;t need any of that to actually work out. Just put on some cheap clothes and get out the door. Don&#8217;t let your lack of gear stop you, and for criminy&#8217;s sake, don&#8217;t go and buy all the gear before you actually start working out.</li>
<li><strong>The 10 percent rule</strong>. Don&#8217;t increase your workout time or distance by more than 10 percent a week. This is a very conservative rule, and it can be broken by the best of the best, who know what they&#8217;re doing, but for the rest of us, stick with this to prevent burnout or injury.</li>
<li><strong>Rest. It&#8217;s important</strong>. This is a commonly overlooked factor. If you don&#8217;t give your body some rest, you will burn out and get injured. Rest is just as important as the workouts in improving performance and fitness. As long as you&#8217;re doing the workouts too and not just the rest!</li>
<li><strong>Hard, then easy</strong>. If you do a hard workout today, rest or go easy tomorrow. Don&#8217;t do two hard workouts in a row. The hard-easy approach can also work within a workout itself &#8211; run hard, then run slow, then run hard &#8211; you get the idea. This allows you to burn more fat than if you just run medium the whole time.</li>
<li><strong>Listen to your body</strong>. This is extremely important &#8211; if you feel like you&#8217;re overdoing it, you probably are. Rest and allow your body to recover. And though you can run through some slight soreness or aches, you should stop as soon as you feel sharp pain or pain in the joints. You&#8217;ll just make it worse.</li>
<li><strong>Strength is good</strong>. If you&#8217;re a walker or runner or cyclist or swimmer or something like that, you should also fit some strength training into your schedule. Nothing too intense, but just some core-strengthening exercises that will help your main sport as well as make you healthier and yes, more attractive.</li>
<li><strong>Set goals</strong>. What are you trying to get out of your exercise? It&#8217;s good to know if you&#8217;re trying to build muscle or burn fat &#8211; because these are two competing goals. There are other goals, of course, but you should be clear what they are. Also, set goals for each week &#8211; what do you want to accomplish this week? Write it down, post it up, and see if you can meet them!</li>
<li><strong>Take photos of yourself</strong>. Before and after photos. The best way to see your progress over time. But do it once a month, not every hour, you narcissist!</li>
<li><strong>Workout first, diet later</strong>. If you&#8217;re just starting a workout plan, it&#8217;s best not to start a diet at the same time. Well, I don&#8217;t like diets in the first place, but still &#8211; one thing at a time. I&#8217;d prefer the workout first, and then worry about the diet after about a month of working out. You didn&#8217;t get fat overnight and you&#8217;re not getting skinny overnight either!</li>
<li><strong>Star chart</strong>. Yeah, you know what these are. But they&#8217;re very motivating. Do a workout, put up a star. Fun!</li>
<li><strong>Get a coach</strong>. You certainly don&#8217;t need one, but there&#8217;s nothing more motivating than a coach. Almost like a workout buddy, in that you are very likely to make the appointment, but less chatty and more knowledgeable. And if you&#8217;re going to learn swimming, a coach is a must. Yes, you can get a coach &#8211; there are master&#8217;s swimming classes at your local pool. Just sign up &#8211; they&#8217;re usually not that expensive.</li>
<li><strong>Join the club</strong>. In my area, there is a great running club and a great cycling federation and triathlon federation. All of them sponsor races and Sunday rides and things like that where you can workout with a group and talk to more knowledgeable people. Well worth the small membership fee!</li>
<li><strong>No pain &#8211; that&#8217;s good</strong>. Forget the old rule of &#8220;no pain, no gain&#8221;. You don&#8217;t need pain to get in shape. Just take it easy, progress gradually, and enjoy yourself.</li>
<li><strong>Warm up</strong>. If you&#8217;re going to do any kind of exercise, don&#8217;t do it with your muscles cold. Gradually get your heart pumping and blood flowing. You&#8217;re less likely to injure yourself, and your workout will be more enjoyable.</li>
<li><strong>On stretching</strong>. Sure, flexibility is important. But stretching out cold is a good way to get injured. If you&#8217;re going to stretch out before a workout, be sure to do so only after your warmup. Also, do not bounce. That&#8217;s another good way to tear your muscles. Do slow stretches and hold them without bouncing. Best of all: stretch after a workout, when your muscles are nice and loose.</li>
<li><strong>Go for the long haul</strong>. Most of all, don&#8217;t think that you will become fit and healthy and sexy in one month. Think of exercise as a life-long habit, and your goals will come to you eventually. You&#8217;ll get there, my friend!</li>
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		<title>My Dog Has A Mental Illness. I&#8217;m the   Companion Animal.</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Jul 2007 15:26:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>james</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Up to 17% of dogs in the U.S. are suffering from separation anxiety. That's nearly one in every five dogs in your street, burdened with a debilitating mental disorder.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Research from the NIH shows that over 19 million Americans</strong> are suffering from depression. Keeping a pet is a good way to remove the loneliness and separation.</p>
<p><strong>Research from Eli Lilly and Company (NYSE: LLY) has demonstrated</strong> that up to 17% of dogs in the U.S. are suffering from separation anxiety.</p>
<p>What?</p>
<p>That&#8217;s nearly one in every five dogs in your street, burdened with a debilitating mental disorder. Or two dogs for every person in your street who has depression. Now that&#8217;s an impressive market.</p>
<p>Where there&#8217;s a problem the forces of supply and demand will find a solution, and this is the void into which Lilly stepped with its anti-depressant drug Reconcile (or Prozac by any other name). As a first foray into pet-pharmaceuticals, Reconcile followed hot on the heels of Pfizer&#8217;s diet drug Slentrol launched earlier in the year.</p>
<p>Lilly&#8217;s companion-animal division is now poring through the molecules in its library of compounds, looking for other streams of income from this undeveloped market.</p>
<p><strong>Some quotes that I&#8217;ve read:</strong></p>
<p><em>&#8220;Dogs affected may bark, chew household items, or urinate in inappropriate locations when left alone&#8221;.</em></p>
<p><em>&#8220;Anxiety may cause the dog to engage in inappropriate behavior, such as destruction, excess vocalization and inappropriate elimination.&#8221; </em></p>
<p>Our kids do the same if we neglect them for long enough.</p>
<p><em>&#8216;My animal is a member of the family, and I am willing to pay the cost of drugs that were developed for humans.&#8217;</em></p>
<p><strong>So what is your view? Is a dog more likely to need an SSRI or a long walk and some love and attention? </strong></p>
<p>For a more thought-provoking post:<br />
http://<a rel="nofollow" title="Lillys Bark Bad As Bite" href="http://www.furiousseasons.com/archives/2007/06/lillys_bark_bad_as_bite.html">www.furiousseasons.com</a></p>
<p>For a satirical look:<a rel="nofollow" title="Deranged FDA approves Reconcile" href="http://ahrp.blogspot.com/2007/02/nation-deranged-fda-approves-reconcile.html"></p>
<p>http://ahrp.blogspot.com</a></p>
<p><a rel="nofollow" title="To do with Reconcile but cant remember title" href="http://www.cbc.ca/thecurrent/2007/200705/20070508.html">http://www.cbc.ca/</a> (scroll down to &#8220;Pet Prozac&#8221;)</p>
<p>For lots of airbrushed dogs on the Lilly pet site:<br />
<a rel="nofollow" title="Official Reconcile Anti-depressant site" href="http://www.lillypet.com/default.aspx">http://www.lillypet.com/</a><br />
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		<title>Journeys with the Black Dog &#8211; Travelling through Depression</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Jul 2007 07:49:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>james</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A compilation of hundreds of stories from the Black Dog Institute Writing Competition. It charts the journey through depression, and features an inspiring range of individuals' coping strategies.]]></description>
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<p>This is almost an addendum to my previous post, the review of &#8220;Dealing with Depression&#8221;. Another excellent book hot off the press is &#8220;Journeys with the Black Dog&#8221;, edited by Gordon Parker (last post), Tessa Wigney and Kerrie Eyers.</p>
<p>The book compiles hundreds of stories received in response to a Black Dog Institute Writing Competition. It charts the journey through depression, from onset to diagnosis, relapse and eventual management, and it highlights a diverse and inspiring range of coping strategies.</p>
<p>Here are some of the many reviews received:</p>
<p><strong>A wonderful book for anyone who has been depressed or who wants to understand depression better. It is insightful, compassionate, and invaluable.</strong><br />
Kay Redfield Jamison, Professor of Psychiatry<br />
The Johns Hopkins School of Medicine</p>
<p><strong>It cuts deep and speaks to the soul as well as the intellect.</strong><br />
Professor Geoff Gallop, Former Premier of Western Australia</p>
<p><strong>The use of the black dog as a metaphor for depression, popularised by Winston Churchill, provides a fertile starting point for the contributors to Journeys with the Black Dog. But there are other recurring analogies: greyness, fog, and suffocation. The contributors, invariably all good writers, all use these metaphors to describe their own experience of depression. Their words, submitted for the Black Dog Institute&#8217;s annual writing competition, are excerpted in themed chapters, moving from onset through diagnosis, acceptance and wellbeing strategies to &#8220;the view from the top&#8221;.</strong><br />
The AGE (Melbourne newspaper)<br />
Reviewer Lorien Kaye</p>
<p><strong>I would like to congratulate you for producing a resource that I am certain will help not only those living with depression, their families and caregivers, but also professionals treating individuals suffering this debilitating disease. I FOUND THIS BOOK TO BE AN INSPIRING EXAMPLE OF THE HUMAN SPIRIT RISING OVER ADVERSITY.</strong><br />
Entrant # 201</p>
<p><strong>Journeys with the Black Dog goes to places most other books in the mental health area can&#8217;t get to because it is an organised collection of written pieces by depression sufferers &#8211; the real experts on depression.  In writing about living, coping with and managing their illness, there is a honesty in each presentation &#8211; whether it be a few sentences or a few pages &#8211; that provides the reader with more than information. Here you have the feelings of suffering with depression. Therefore, the ideas presented are very real and sometimes painfully honest.</strong><br />
Entrant # 143</p>
<p><strong>I have just received my copy of the latest book in the Black Dog series and I am delighted with the quality of your work. Your method of incorporating our various entries into the blended text is nothing short of brilliant. You have produced a work that will be of immense value to readers and that is far greater than any of the individual contributors could have hoped to produce. Well done &#8211; and thank you.</strong><br />
Entrant # 187</p>
<p><strong>I loved the fact that the last chapter was entitled &#8220;The view from the top&#8221; because when I went into hospital with depression my sister-in-law gave me a card, and on it she wrote &#8220;you have a mountain to climb, but when you get there, the view from the top will be simply amazing&#8221;. And it is!! Thanks again.</strong><br />
Entrant #305</p>
<p>Enough quotes. Okay, okay.</p>
<p>The book hasn&#8217;t yet circulated beyond Australian and New Zealand shores, but it can be bought electronically at: <a rel="nofollow" title="Black Dog  Depression ebook" href="http://www.ebooks.com/ebooks/book_display.asp?IID=298211">http://www.ebooks.com/</a>. I expect it will be available on Amazon and other online retailers in the near future.<br />
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		<title>8 Tips to Get Off the Couch and Into Action</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Jun 2007 14:06:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>james</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The problem with exercise is that it's very hard to start. If you're like me you have a treadmill, a bike, or some kind of gym apparatus collecting dust in a corner.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>This is the 2nd of 4 articles on exercise, to be posted over 4 weeks. The first article is &#8220;<a rel="nofollow" title="Exercise and Depression First Article" href="http://www.findingoptimism.com/?p=60">The Exercise and Mental Health Link</a>&#8220;.</em></p>
<p>Research shows that one of the most popular treatments for depression &#8211; according to clinicians, researchers and patients &#8211; is exercise. The problem with exercise is that it&#8217;s very hard to start, or once started, very hard to continue to form a habit. If you&#8217;re like me you have a treadmill, a bike, or some kind of gym apparatus collecting dust in a corner of your house.</p>
<p>Here are some ideas to help.</p>
<p>1. <strong>Start slowly and set small goals.</strong> Aim for things that you can achieve, like walking for 10 minutes each day. If you go for a complete training program straight away then you are more likely to fail. I make this mistake all the time. I plan an elite-style exercise regime, then quietly concede a few weeks later that it never got off the ground.</p>
<p>2. <strong>Make exercise a habit.</strong> If you start slowly you are more likely to continue. Once you&#8217;re over the &#8220;exercise hump&#8221; &#8211; say the first couple of weeks &#8211; you will be well on the way to a healthy habit.</p>
<p>3. <strong>Do something you enjoy.</strong> This will help to associate exercise with positive feelings. Shoot baskets, go for a swim, or walk laps of the local mall. (But remember that <a rel="nofollow" title="Green Exercise and Depression" href="http://www.findingoptimism.com/?p=45">ecotherapy</a> is better than shopping center exercise). A symptom of depression and other mood disorders is a loss of pleasure in things that you once enjoyed. If you start and persist with an exercise that you used to enjoy, the pleasure is likely to return.</p>
<p>4. <strong>Exercise with other people.</strong> Exercise is very hard to start and then continue on your own. Especially if you have a strong gravitational force that prevents you from getting up. You are much more likely to succeed if there is a commitment involved, like a set of expensive aerobics classes, walking with a friend once a week, or hiring a personal trainer to cheer you on.</p>
<p>5. <strong>Rethink your attitude to exercise.</strong> Exercise is essential for keeping your body and mind healthy. It provides huge benefits to you, that can make a vast difference to your mental well-being. Exercise can also be enjoyable and bring a great sense of achievement or satisfaction. If you develop a positive attitude towards exercise you will find it easier to commit time to it.</p>
<p>6. <strong>Is anything else stopping you?</strong> Many of us have other barriers to activity, like self-consciousness. There are many different ways to exercise, so find one that you&#8217;re comfortable with. Don&#8217;t use it as an excuse that just prevents better health.</p>
<p>7. <strong>Build your exercise into a task.</strong> On the weekend I surprised myself by pulling down a fence (intentionally). Actually I only pulled down most of it &#8211; if I finished it in one day my wife would have been suspicious. Anyway, it was a lot of effort to pull it down. A lot of exercise. It is also exercise to walk the dog, or mow the lawn, or wash the car. If you combine your exercise with a task then you will have twice the satisfaction when it&#8217;s over.</p>
<p>8. <strong>Be reasonable.</strong> Exercise and depression don&#8217;t seem to go together, just as swimming against the tide doesn&#8217;t really work. Don&#8217;t be hard on yourself when things don&#8217;t go to plan. Give yourself full credit for your successes and keep persevering to form a strong habit.</p>
<p>&#8220;I have to exercise in the morning before my brain figures out what I&#8217;m doing.&#8221;<br />
<em>Marsha Doble</em></p>
<p>&#8220;I gotta work out. I keep saying it all the time. I keep saying I gotta start working out. It&#8217;s been about two months since I&#8217;ve worked out. And I just don&#8217;t have the time. Which uh..is odd. Because I have the time to go out to dinner. And uh..and watch tv. And get a bone density test. And uh.. try to figure out what my phone number spells in words.&#8221;<br />
<em>Ellen DeGeneres</em></p>
<p>&#8220;The trouble with jogging is that the ice falls out of your glass&#8221;<br />
<em>Martin Mull</em></p>
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		<title>My Mind Doesn&#8217;t Clock On Until 1pm</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Jun 2007 13:20:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A common symptom of biological depression is a steady improvement in mood during the day. Worst mood in the morning, best in the evening, or thereabouts.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A common symptom of biological depression is a steady improvement in mood during the day. Worst mood in the morning, best in the evening, or thereabouts. I experience this symptom like clockwork.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been expanding my &#8220;stay-well plan&#8221; to include more of the things that I&#8217;ve blogged about. Taking my own medicine, so to speak. One of them is going outside, or getting light into my eyes, as soon as I wake up. (See the earlier post &#8220;<a rel="nofollow" title="Sunlight, Seasonal Affective Disorder" href="http://www.findingoptimism.com/?p=14">Dim Bulb or Bright Light</a>&#8220;.)</p>
<p>Over the last few weeks I&#8217;ve been opening the curtains first thing in the morning, then going back to bed for &#8220;just another 10 minutes&#8221;. Instead of sleeping I look out the window, at the winter sun streaming into our bedroom. (Australia.) I do the same thing in the family room. I eat breakfast facing the window and looking outside. (I had to swipe my 3 year-old daughter&#8217;s spot).</p>
<p>There has been a big improvement in my mood in the mornings. I&#8217;ve actually been civil at work, and I&#8217;ve maintained an awful lot of eye contact. Yesterday when I arrived at work I coated the insides of my car with a large espresso, and I actually laughed.</p>
<p>If light isn&#8217;t the reason for my newfound regularity then it must be the arrival of a modern mattress. We&#8217;ve been out of the mattress market for about 10 years, and had never even heard of a &#8220;comfort layer&#8221;. Comfort it is. I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s helped my health an awful lot, except now I sleep for 5 or 6 hours, instead of 4 or 5.</p>
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		<title>How Bad is Your Online Habit?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jun 2007 13:28:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>james</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Communicating is tough when you're feeling down. The internet is much easier. You are anonymous in the chat room, on MySpace, Facebook and Bebo. Or you can lose yourself in an online game.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Communicating and socializing are tough when you&#8217;re feeling down. The internet is much easier. You can chat online without worrying about how you look, how your voice sounds or how to maintain eye contact. It isn&#8217;t threatening. You are anonymous in the chat room, just as you are on MySpace, Facebook and Bebo. Or you can lose yourself in an online game.</p>
<p>Researchers at Carnegie Mellon University found that <em>just a few hours on the internet each week</em> can increase a persons experience of depression and loneliness. This seems far-fetched, since the internet is such a sociable place. So are the researchers&#8217; conclusions correct?</p>
<p>Initially the researchers found a drop in time spent interacting with family and friends, in direct proportion to the amount of time spent on the internet. No cigar there. But relationships built via the internet are typically more shallow than face-to-face relationships, and they do not have the support and reciprocity that is vital for psychological security and happiness. So the result is a decline in the feeling of being connected with other people.</p>
<p>Another study, published in April this year, concludes that Internet addiction is correlated with symptoms of depressive disorders.</p>
<p><strong>So which comes first: depression or heavy internet use?</strong> Is using the internet a coping strategy for depression or a partial explanation for its cause? Some research concludes that heavy internet usage directly contributes to depression. Other studies don&#8217;t go so far, but still find a correlation between being online and depression. Of course a person&#8217;s activities on the internet will explain variations away from the norm. Someone who frequents gambling sites is much more susceptible to depression than someone using the internet for research.</p>
<p>Here are some red flag questions to ask yourself:</p>
<ul>
<li>when you are offline do you think about being online a lot?</li>
<li>do you often stay online longer than you intended or said you would?</li>
<li>does the Internet provide relief or help you to escape from your depression?</li>
<li>does your online habit put strain on a significant relationship, your job or other important area of your life?</li>
<li>have you lied to your partner, family, therapist or others to conceal the amount of time you spend on the internet?</li>
</ul>
<p>One researcher describes the hook of an addiction as giving you &#8220;feelings and gratifying sensations that you are not able to get in other ways. It may block out sensations of pain, uncertainty or discomfort. It may create powerfully distracting sensations that focus and absorb attention. It may enable a person to forget or feel &#8220;okay&#8221; about some insurmountable problems. It may provide an artificial, temporary feeling of security or calm, of self-worth or accomplishment, of power and control, or intimacy or belonging.&#8221;* It&#8217;s understandable that people come back for more. They enjoy the benefit that addiction brings, no matter how temporary it is or that the problem worsens in the long-run.</p>
<p><strong>If this describes you then you need to cut your internet hours right back and seek some professional help.</strong> Quite seriously. Internet addiction is similar to other addictions with respect to the potential for damage. In the last few years the problem has been labeled &#8220;Internet Addiction Disorder&#8221;, and while many clinicians aren&#8217;t on board with the term, there is consensus that excessive online activity can be terrible for your mental well-being.</p>
<p><strong>For the Record</strong><br />
In March 2005 the Chinese government opened a clinic for Internet addicts, to treat the effects of long hours on gaming and chat sites. They reported the effects to be anxiety, depression, and lack of sleep. Treatments have included total internet bans, counseling, physical activity, antidepressants, and enforcement of strict, regular sleep times.</p>
<p><em>Resource List:</em></p>
<p><a rel="nofollow" title="Paper on internet addiction and depression" href="http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/sites/entrez?db=pubmed&amp;cmd=Retrieve&amp;dopt=AbstractPlus&amp;list_uids=17577539&amp;itool=pubmed_DocSum">Research paper published April 2007 on Internet Addiction and Mental Illnesses</a></p>
<p><a rel="nofollow" title="Internet Addiction Symptoms and Treatment" href="http://www.netaddiction.com/articles/articles.htm">Center for Internet Addiction Recovery</a><br />
* See page 8 of the paper titled Internet Addiction: Symptoms, Evaluation, and Treatment</p>
<p><a rel="nofollow" title="Paper on internet use and depression" href="http://w3.salemstate.edu/~tevans/sadness.htm">Researchers find sad, lonely world in cyberspace</a></p>
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		<title>The Good News According to St John&#8217;s Wort</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jun 2007 13:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>james</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[St John's wort is an effective treatment, and for some people as effective as antidepressants. There are also many others who have experienced no benefit from St John's wort whatsoever.]]></description>
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<p><strong>What is St John&#8217;s wort?</strong><br />
It is a perennial herb with a yellow flower, that is commonly used to treat mild depression. It is sold as capsules, teas and extracts.</p>
<p><strong>How Does It Work?</strong><br />
St John&#8217;s wort has many chemical compounds, some of which are believed to inhibit the reabsorption of serotonin, dopamine and noradrenaline. These are chemicals in the brain that are closely linked with depression.</p>
<p>Clinical trials have found that <em>for mild or moderate depression St John&#8217;s wort is an effective treatment</em>, and for some people it may be as effective as taking antidepressants. Interestingly, there are also many reports of people who have had no benefit from St John&#8217;s wort whatsoever. <em>For severe or biological depression there is no evidence that St John&#8217;s wort is effective</em>, and it carries significant risks in these cases.</p>
<p><strong>What are the Pluses?</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>It provides much needed relief for many people with mild or moderate depression</li>
<li>It is an alternative for some people who find antidepressants to be ineffective</li>
<li>The unpleasant side-effects experienced by some from anti-depressants may not be present</li>
<li>Some aren&#8217;t willing to take antidepressants, but are happy to use herbal remedies</li>
<li>The cost is a lot lower than antidepressants, and it is sold over the counter (except in Europe where it is widely prescribed).</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>What are the Minuses?</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>In many countries where it is available over the counter, the active ingredients are not as precisely controlled as for drugs. Products can differ in content from brand to brand and batch to batch.</li>
<li>It can interact with other medications, including antidepressants, HIV medications, some heart medications, the contraceptive pill and anticonvulsants for epilepsy.  Treatment with St John&#8217;s wort needs to be medically supervised.</li>
<li>Possible side effects include photosensitivity (increased sensitivity to sunlight), fatigue, dizziness and gastrointestinal symptoms</li>
<li>It is not suitable for treating severe or melancholic / biological depression</li>
<li>It shouldn&#8217;t be combined with many prescription drugs.</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>Further resources:</strong><br />
<a rel="nofollow" title="Complementary &amp; Alternative Medicine Article" href="http://nccam.nih.gov/health/stjohnswort/">NCCAM &#8211; Herbs at a Glance</a> <a rel="nofollow" title="McMan's Depression &amp; Bipolar" href="http://www.mcmanweb.com/article-10.htm"><br />
McMan&#8217;s Wort for Depression</a><a rel="nofollow" title="St Johns Wort Depression Fact Sheet" href="http://www.blackdoginstitute.org.au/factsheets/index.cfm"><br />
Black Dog Institute Fact Sheet</a></p>
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